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Title: Day 13_Guidance vs. Criticism
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Goal: this task will accomplish the achievement of the goal to stop lashing out or shutting down (Blind Spots).
Next Step - JP published this Cognitive Task at under Societal | Foster Care and Education | Interpersonal and Social Skills
Doers: 7 | Form: Cognitive Task | Phase: | Type: Primary | Level: 1 | Code:
Start: Dec 14, 2019 | When: | Duration: 30 Minute(s)
  • Some of our biggest lessons that brought us the most happiness happened because someone thought enough of us to correct us.

    Not saying it didn't sting. It did at first.

    But the small pain was worth it in the end.

    How willing are you to open yourself to accept correction when it's offered by someone you know is on your side?
  • Ask a wise and trusted friend or mentor to guide you about the best way to say what's on your mind.

    Then ask for him or her to kindly and GENTLY point out behaviors you have shown that are not helpful to you or others.

    It's okay. No need to wince. This is the most important thing any of us can do to heal and mature.

    It’s not criticism. It’s guidance. Big difference.

    Consider the aftermath. Criticism continues to feel stinging and unkind long after it's finished. It makes you feel "less than".

    Guidance sometimes has a small sting at first, but later it emboldens you and feels liberating.

    Will you reach out and have the discussion?
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