Remember Me
Trouble logging in?
Solutions to your goals...
sign in
my journal
members admin +
my account
target accounts
tech view
social view
community +
day plan
Title: Day 19_Bucket List
Required field cannot be left blank.
User name already exists, please choose another one.
First Name:
Required field cannot be left blank.
Last Name:
Required field cannot be left blank.
Required field cannot be left blank.
Not less than 6 characters
Re-type Password:
The two passwords are not consistent.
Required field cannot be left blank.
Email format is invalid.
Another user has already registered with that email address.
Re-type Email:
The two emails are not consistent.
create free account
add to my library
add to my day plan
Goal: this task will improve the proficiency of the goal to make friends who will bring out the best in you (My Space).
Next Step - JP published this Cognitive Task at under Societal | Foster Care and Education | Interpersonal and Social Skills
Doers: 5 | Form: Cognitive Task | Phase: | Type: Primary | Level: 1 | Code:
Start: Dec 06, 2019 | When: | Duration: 15 Minute(s)
  • What kind of people may have the ability to give you the testudo-shield support we've been talking about?

    Here are a few to consider:

    * There are older, wiser people who help you figure out the best solutions to a challenge.
    * There are friends who inspire you to dream bigger or help you learn things that you didn’t know before - good things, empowering things, motivating things.
    * There are those who say the hard thing. They challenge you to improve what's holding you back.
    * There are people who listen to all the turmoil and triumphs in your life, and you listen to theirs.
    * There are people who just seem to be there when you need help with the little things and with the big things, whether it's moving to your new apartment or giving you a ride when the bus is late.
    * There are people who make you laugh or just make your day by being around them.
    * There are romantic relationships that are based on mutual love and respect.

    List the important relationships in your life and what types of friendship they represent based upon what you read above.
  • Who is missing from that list that you'd like to add?
  • Imagine how your life would be different if they were a part of it.
  • In the movie, "The Bucket List", two men played by Morgan Freeman and Jack Nicholson developed a close, honest friendship at the end of their lives.

    They learned to trust each other at a time when they felt most vulnerable. They were real and sometimes raw with their emotions and struggles. They developed a friendship that we could all learn from.

    Go to the 'demo' tab and watch two scenes from the movie. Let us know what you think when you've finished.
  • The main characters from "The Bucket List" became the most unlikely of friends.

    Each had something important to offer the other that no one else in their inner circles could fulfill. They needed each other during the most challenging part of their lives.

    We sometimes forget that we have a part to play in others’ lives, too.

    Given your understanding of "real you", what quality would you offer a friend who needed your support?
  • If you can't think of anything, then remember your five senses:

    * touch - a hug or pat on the back
    * taste - an ice cream or coffee
    * sight - see them for who they are
    * smell - a cup of hot chocolate on a cold day or a warm cookie when they need a treat
    * hearing - listen to them when they need advice or simply need to be heard

    Let's add a sixth:

    * your voice - speak honestly and openly to encourage, motivate, challenge or problem solve

    Which of these can "real you" offer easily and naturally?
  • How willing are you to offer up something that will support and encourage your friend, no matter how old they are or what role they play in your life?
  • Do that, and the walls of protection will start to crumble naturally. Trust will follow suit.

    Did you know that?
  • If you get a chance, watch the movie "The Bucket List". You can stream it or check it out at your local library.

    It's well worth the effort.
save and continue
messages (0)
past results
(No Message)
© 2019 Furious Integrated Training Systems, Inc. All rights reserved.