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Goal: this task will increase the confidence about the goal to identify and change behaviors that hurt you and others (Blind Spots).
JP The Next Step published this Cognitive Task at isodoit.com under Education | Personal Awareness and Self-Improvement and Societal | Relationships
Doers: 10 | Form: Cognitive Task | Phase: Foundation | Type: Primary | Level: 1 | Code:
Start: Dec 10, 2018 | When: | Duration: 10 Minute
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  • "Antwone Fisher" is a a story that paints the picture about people who are hurting emotionally and who sometimes hurt themselves and others as a result.

    Mr. Fisher is a former foster youth who was abused, treated unfairly and felt abandoned by almost everyone who should have stood by him as a child.

    He hid his intelligence, ambition and talent behind his rage and lashed out at others or withdrew altogether to feel safe.

    Go to the 'demo' tab and watch two clips from the film, "Antwone Fisher".

    Tell us what you thought about the clips when you've finished.
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  • Antwone recites his poem:

    "...Who will cry for the little boy?
    A good boy he tried to be.
    Who will cry for the little boy
    who cries inside of me?"

    Write the first word that came to mind when you read Mr. Fisher's poem.
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  • Does this relate to your situation in any way?
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  • If so, are you ready to heal the child inside?

    If the answer to is 'yes', then we're ready and able to help you.

    Keep doing the isoBlogs and trust that, step by step and day by day, they'll lead you to a good place.
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  • People who hurt emotionally have a tendency to hurt others. Sometimes they don't even know what they're doing or why. They just know they're hurt or mad or afraid.

    Place yourself in one of two categories as you go through this isoCourse:

    a) Maybe you're the one on the receiving end of the anger. Go through this isoCourse from that perspective to better understand what's happening and gain more control over situations that may be spiraling.

    b) Maybe you're the one who's hurting and lashing out at others even when you don't want to. Go through this isoCourse to better understand what's happening to you and how to deal with it.

    Both perspectives will provide tools to use now to lower the suffering and lessen the pain. The goal is for the hurtful patterns to change altogether.

    Are you ready to find solutions?
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  • Alert: if you're consistently on the receiving end of rage, humiliating words or violent actions, then we urge you to seek help now to get out of a potentially dangerous situation.

    Here's information to access the National Domestic Hotline: http://www.thehotline.org

    Does this apply?
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  • 'Blind Spots' runs for 21 days without breaks for weekends or holidays.

    If, at any time, you post to Publisher, then check 'my journal' for responses. If you'll do the isoBlogs each day, you won't likely need to post to us for additional help. The system is designed to do that on its own.

    You are encouraged, however, to join a Next Step community.

    Post your email address to us in the last open space on any isoBlog page. Let us know what city you live in and if you want to be placed in the same group as someone you know. You'll receive an invite from isodoit.com. Click on the link. You're in.

    To read posts, go to your Day Plan or view them in 'my journal'.

    If you're reading this isoBlog from another site, then you'll have to sign in and create an account to be able to post comments and save your responses.

    Will you commit to show up each day, do your isoBlog, and be honest with your answers?
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  • See you tomorrow!
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Publisher JP The Next Step sent a message on Jul 20, 2018
Message: Welcome to Blind Spots, Baggage & Behavior, the 4th in The Next Step series. "Blind Spots" was developed as a "nav system" to guide you out of tight spots where anger has been a problem - your anger or someone else's. Join a community or team to see how others are doing and support their progress. Include your email address in the last open box at the bottom of this page. You'll receive an invitation from share@isodoit.com. Click the link and you're added.
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